Are They “Just Not That Into Me”?
Posted in Insight on May 28th, 2009 by andrea – 2 CommentsI recently referred a business to a friend that was in desperate need of their services – my friend immediately hung up with me and called Company A. Company A had a recording on their line that gave an e-mail address and advised that communication would be conducted within this medium. My friend is a busy person and she doesn’t have the time to keep this on her To-Do-List. She is now on the path, so she just starts calling people that she finds under that type of service for our area under Google. Company B is found, interviewed, hired and my referral status has just been demoted!
This is another one of those hmmmmm……moments for me. The same practice has recently happened to me several times and I am wondering if this is the start of a trend? A few months ago we had a wonderful person that we hired for a very important project at home – we loved her and the people that worked for her! Problem….whenever I tried to schedule follow-up visits they would e-mail me dates and times. I would e-mail them back and those times would now be unavailable. We would try and again – yadda, yadda…down the road and still no appointment. It was becoming too much work for me to spend my money with this company – why can’t we take care of this in one five minute phone conversation???? Since this happened I don’t even bother with companies that I have encountered that want me to e-mail them. I do the same thing my friend did and keep going down the line – Let’s face it….there are very few industries that have only one person that does what you need!
Why don’t I mind leaving a message, but I do mind e-mailing? If I leave a message I have placed the ball in the court and anticipate a phone call where we will wrap up the business in less than 5 minutes. It gives me the feeling of being really close to checking that task off of my MILE long to-do list. Maybe it is a case of “Voice Mail Compassion”, – since I also work for a small company and while we have tried a million and one things to prevent calls from having to go to voice mail – The closest we get to the Magic Solution is that we immediately return phone calls!
So, my questions is….what is the logic behind this method? Right now, it feels like “They’re Just Not That Into Me” !


